Dear Gentlemen of the world,
Please do not deny yourself the opportunity for a girl to decide how she feels about you.
How will she ever decide if you are the man of her dreams if you never ask her out?
Just stating the obvious.
Thank You.
After a long conversation with a good friend tonight he finally admitted that he is really interested in this girl, but after their first date he decided she is too good for him and would never like him. Yes, he decided how she feels about him. He didn't even give her the chance to actually like him! He was too afraid of rejection to let her reject him or not.
After pointing out the obvious: that even if he does ask her out again and she says no, then he is in the exact same place as he is right now: I finally convinced him to ask her out again.
I'll keep tabs on how this goes.
Cross your fingers for this poor boy, that he will be a man and ask her out!!